Were you one of those people who spent a lot of time in chat rooms in the 90s? I definitely wasn’t. Partly because I wasn’t allowed to (remember all those warnings about how dangerous chat rooms were?), but also because I simply couldn’t understand the appeal of using a keyboard to communicate with someone I’d never met in real life.
But for me this has changed. Big time. I still have never been in an actual 90s-style chat room, but meeting people through blogging over the past few months has been an incredibly meaningful experience for me. I’m realizing that blogging is by nature an interactive medium, and as such, it presents incredible opportunities for discussion and connection. My absolute favorite part of blogging is having conversations with people—conversations that unfold primarily in the comments sections of my own posts and others’ posts. The post itself is always the starting point, but commenters often tell amazing stories and offer important ideas and insights that take the topic in new directions.
And to me this phenomenon is very profound. Here’s why:
There’s this essay by Oscar Wilde, “The Critic as Artist,” which introduces a pretty revolutionary way of thinking about works of art—and by a work of art I mean a painting, a sculpture, a musical composition, a poem, a novel, or arguably even a blog post. There are usually two people involved in a work of art: the creator (“the artist”), and the person reading or viewing or listening to the art (Oscar Wilde calls this person “the critic”). The traditional viewpoint is that the more important person in this equation is the artist, and that the job of the critic is simply to appreciate the art and try to figure what the artist meant. But Oscar Wilde flips this idea on its head, arguing that the critic might actually be just as important as the artist—that the critic is an artist too.
Here’s a short excerpt from “The Critic as Artist” that sums this up, using the example of the Mona Lisa and contrasting the artist’s (possible) original intent with what the critic brings to the table. I love this:
“The painter may have been merely the slave of an archaic smile, as some have fancied, but whenever I pass into the cool galleries of the Palace of the Louvre, and stand before that strange figure…I murmur to myself, ‘She is older than the rocks among which she sits; like the vampire, she has been dead many times, and learned the secrets of the grave; and has been a diver in deep seas, and keeps their fallen day about her: and trafficked for strange webs with Eastern merchants; and, as Leda, was the mother of Helen of Troy, and, as St. Anne, the mother of Mary; and all this has been to her but as the sound of lyres and flutes, and lives only in the delicacy with which it has moulded the changing lineaments, and tinged the eyelids and the hands…And so the picture becomes more wonderful to us than it really is, and reveals to us a secret of which, in truth, it knows nothing.”
A secret of which it knows nothing. In other words, we often focus on what Leonardo da Vinci was thinking when he painted the Mona Lisa, but another thing that’s really important is how the viewer sees the work, how s/he responds to and builds on what has already been created. And in a lot of cases, the viewer might contribute something that the original artist never even thought of.
Now, just to be clear, I’m not laboring under any delusion that my blog (or anyone’s blog, probably) is on par with the Mona Lisa. And I suppose one could argue about whether or not blog posts qualify as “art” (personally I’d say that they do). However, I think the general principle still holds true. Try it sometime: find a blog post you like, and read all the comments at the bottom. You’ll probably find that the ideas that readers have about the post spiral off into a million different, beautiful directions from the post itself.
So, with that introduction, here is:
If you’ve been reading my blog, you may know that I really like thinking and writing about the money-related messages that appear in literature and popular culture. I believe these hidden messages are really, really important to explore because they help us to become more aware of how our culture views money, as well as how our own money philosophies may have come to be. And I get the sense that other people really like talking about this topic too: last week I posted something about the portrayal of wealth in books and movies, and many of the comments from the “critics” were like mini-posts themselves, and brought up ideas that I definitely hadn’t thought of.
So…I thought we could widen the circle of this discussion even more, through a link-up!
Consider this your official invitation to participate in the #pfmessages link-up, regardless of whether or not you have your own blog. (pf = personal finance.) Below is the topic for the link-up, followed by suggestions on how to participate.
Topic of link-up: the hidden messages about money and personal finance that appear in literature and popular culture. How you want to approach this topic is up to you, but you might consider:
- Choosing a novel, movie, television show, song, poem, children’s book, comic book, nursery rhyme, etc., or even a whole genre of literature/film, and discussing its messages, hidden or otherwise, about wealth or personal finance. What kinds of choices do the characters make about money? How are these choices portrayed? What happens to the characters as a result? and so on. Feel free to write about whatever you’d like, but part of the idea here is to choose something fictional, where the messages are a little more hidden, so there’s something to deconstruct. (The money messages in “Rich Dad, Poor Dad” are already pretty clear.)
- Telling a personal story about how money messages in movies, novels, TV shows, etc. have influenced you (or have not influenced you).
Suggestions for how to participate:
- If you have a blog of your own and want to participate in the form of a blog post, simply publish your post sometime anytime on or before Sunday, December 27th, link back to this post, and use the hashtag #pfmessages when spreading the word about your post on Twitter so these posts can be easily findable by me and by others. Many thanks to Alyssa for this suggestion and for assuring me that yes you can just create a hashtag out of thin air (I need as much help as I can get when it comes to social media!).
- If you want to participate but do not have a blog of your own (or have a blog but already have enough posts planned for December), you have two options:
- leave your contribution in the comments section of this post, or
- email it to me directly at: theyachtless [at] gmail [dot] com
- If you don’t feel like contributing, but are interested in the topic, you can also participate by checking the #pfmessages hashtag this month and reading the blog posts of people who are participating—and, of course, commenting on their posts if you feel so inspired!
I’ll definitely post a contribution too, either next week or the week after. And then I’ll do a wrap-up post between December 27th and 31st where I’ll try to assemble all the emailed/commented contributions (and links to contributions on other blogs) in one place, and then everyone can have fun reading each others’ ideas. In the meantime, feel free to help me spread the word!
If you want to see a couple more examples of posts that talk about money messages, you can check out:
- this fantastic post by The Single Dollar, which deconstructs one film’s messages about money and career, and talks about a personal connection to these messages
- another post I wrote last month on gender-specific money tropes in several novels
- (I’m sure there are lots more that I’m not thinking of or am not aware of; let me know if there are more past examples I can add to this list)
By the way: if you’re someone who reads blogs but has never commented: I get it. I spent seven months reading Blonde on a Budget religiously but never commenting, even though Cait always encouraged readers to share their thoughts (and still does). It wasn’t until after I started my own blog and was like, Ohhhhhh, now I understand the power of connecting with people virtually about ideas, that I actually posted a comment. And now I wish I’d started commenting earlier, because it turns out that it’s really exciting and rewarding to connect with others this way. So if you still don’t want to comment or participate in the link-up, I totally respect that. But if you have any inclination at all, I strongly encourage you to do it. It will be fun, I promise! If you don’t want to use your real name, make up a crazy pseudonym—half the personal finance bloggers I know have crazy pseudonyms anyway, so you’ll be in good company. I think it could be a really cool collective exercise, and a chance for even more critics-as-artists to be heard, because you deserve to be.
Ok, that’s all from me. Your turn. Are you in?
Also, if you have any suggestions on any aspect of this project, please let me know!